“We take that which is unreal to be real, and that which is real to be unreal.”
– Rupert Spira
“There’s no place like home.”
Finding inner peace.
You might have spent your whole life doing everything you can to find peace, freedom and happiness. Reading, studying, taking course after course that teaches you to Affirm the positive! Take control over emotions and behaviour! Change your thoughts! Years spent trying to convince/fool yourself into feeling something that you don’t feel – and pushing away all the feelings you think you don’t want. The searching stops here – you are already everything you are looking for. It’s time to come home to your true nature.
It really looks like to find peace we have to be continuously experiencing peace, and that the mind has to do this job of maintaining and controlling, but that is a total misunderstanding of what peace is. Peace can only be found in the open space of experiencing everything there is to experience – every feeling and every thought. When everything is allowed in and made available to be questioned, you will find that there is nothing there. And that is peace.
What Can You Expect From Working With Me?
CHANGE JUST HAPPENS
As fears, insecurities, anxiety and limitations are seen for thought and the beliefs they are – everything changes.
FREEDOM TO BE YOU
Some people spend their whole lives dedicated to changing the past – and it simply can’t be done. Some people spend their whole lives worrying about what might happen in the future – and it’s all made up. Whether you are thinking about the past or worrying about the future, you are doing it NOW. Seeing that is where freedom starts.
LESS STRESS AND A CONTENTED CALMNESS
No one will ever understand you. Never, ever. Coming to this realisation is freedom. It’s the end of trying to control what can’t ever be controlled: other people’s perception. There is no understanding except your own understanding.
When you fully recognize the role of your past and your conditioning as the fundamental driver of your behaviour then life changes. Inner peace comes from realizing that your mind is creating your experience from moment to moment and the only time you suffer is when you believe a thought that argues with reality.
“Imagine that something that sounds so simple and obvious can be so difficult. With Suzanne’s gentle, yet purposeful coaching, I have gone through a powerful and inspiring inner journey. I discovered an important piece of the puzzle that I had not even realized was missing. Once the penny dropped, the tears came. The insight was so strong and deep that it has changed me and my attitude to life in general.“
In 2001, at the age of 36, my whole life seemed to fall apart completely within just two months.
At the time, I just couldn’t understand how that could have happened – I was educated, ambitious, and diligent. Unfortunately, and apparently, I was also deeply unhappy, desperately confused and thoroughly exhausted trying to be what I thought I should be. I just never realized that – I simply thought that this was the way I was and it was just “life”.
My life crashing like it did was inevitable really. And devastating. And…oddly welcome. Life was clearly telling me, in no uncertain terms, that enough is enough and something inside of me was very aware that it was time I listened. And so I did. That was the beginning of an indescribably fascinating 22-year journey that has taken me deep into worlds of psychology, philosophy, theology, spirituality and leadership studies.
However, NOTHING I have ever studied has been more powerful than my own realization and understanding that who I really am is NOT my thoughts, feelings or behaviours – and that trying to secure, protect, develop or ”improve” the idea or concept of who I think I am, is utterly futile. There is such peace and freedom in seeing that. It is truly life-changing.
With several certifications in coaching and leadership development, I have been self-employed and have been coaching and teaching various modalities since 2012, with a two year break due to Covid from April 2020. Prior to running my own business, I have had a broad and international corporate career spanning 8 countries on 3 continents with 25 years of experience in global companies and organisations. English is my mother tongue, but I speak both Swedish and Danish equally fluently. I am the proud mother of a wonderfully grounded 19 year-old daughter, who I have raised entirely on my own. And we have a fluffy little dog.